I thought I’d do something a little different today in honor of a day so special to my heart. Through my conscious years on this earth…as in the years I was old enough to remember…I’ve gathered quite a few life lessons. The little girl in the picture has done a lot of growing from that 3rd birthday party.
I may not know everything, but I know a few things… (*clears throat*) 31 to be exact. Some of these statements are well known quotes and others are just conclusions I’ve come to live by. I hope that through this post you are either reminded of certain lessons or that you gain support and a new perspective with any ups or downs life may throw at you.
*Note: “31” Lessons doesn’t necessarily imply that I’m turning 31 (*wink, wink*). Perhaps I was so excited about turning 21 that I added 10 bonus lessons. 🙂
- Laugh – as much as possible because life can be tough.
- Take all advice with a grain of salt.
- Stay prepared – always.
- Treat everyone kind, you never know who you’ll need.
- Treat everyone kind, you never know who needs you.
- If you can’t treat them kind, walk away but just don’t sacrifice your kindness or energy. It’s not worth it.
- Positivity is powerful.
- Keep 2 things private: your love life and your salary.
- Stay connected to a higher source daily – pray, meditate…whatever that source may be to you personally.
- Have at least one confidant.
- The best advice comes from those who have been there…wisdom is golden.
- Treat your body good (exercise, diet) and it will be reciprocated.
- Don’t settle.
- Embrace dark times and strive through them. Blessings are often right beyond the pain.
- Follow your heart because even if it’s wrong, you’ll never live with regrets.
- Set boundaries or people will test you.
- Express your feelings because no one can read your mind.
- Treat trust and loyalty like money…spend wisely.
- Strive to master the art of patience.
- Never miss an opportunity to show appreciation. “Thank you” is a heavenly phrase.
- Don’t live the life that others want for you.
- “When you don’t know which way to go, be still.”
- Trust your gut.
- Don’t be afraid to splurge every now and then – you deserve it.
- …But know your financial limits.
- Be slow to bash the opposite sex, we need each other. If you feel the need to bash, question who you’re exposing yourself to.
- Keep your circle small.
- “You are not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.” Unknown
- Office politics are a given. Learn the game and roll with it.
- Dress for the job you want.
- Set goals through every phase in life.
4 comments
#18 and #28…that part!! I love it!
Thanks Lisa! Nothing like “wise spending” and boundaries!
Great pic (who’s that beautiful lady holding your hand)!! # 9 and #12 and would like to add “Love Yourself”.
Agreed that mom is quite stunning! 🙂 I love the simple yet vital reminder of “Love Yourself”. Thanks Lady T!